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on the cusp??? - m4w (first kiss)

if it is or is not you, I will be there tonight.. do you remember that afternoon? where? I'll be there 9-10 p.m.

I'll be there rather wondering the rest of my life "what if?"

Trouble too

life catchup - m4m (rp) 47yr

i quit my job, have a week off and then i start a new job, hope that helps

Sue at Kohl's Lemont - m4w 23yr

We worked together this morning and I had a lot of fun talking to you while doing so... we should get together sometime. I wanted to ask you today but I didn't want to do it on the clock, but after I had clocked out, you were nowhere to be found.

What color is my hair?

re: somebody help me? - w4m (more thoughts)

I, too, thought the response of three possibilities (mirroring men, morphing to men's desires, and just being physically attractive) wasn't bad. And -- almost equally important -- I think the person who posted it had good intentions. I think she was really trying to offer something constructive, and to be helpful and kind -- and that on its own is admirable, really.

That being said, her analysis did strike me a smidge (just a smidge, mind you) too "Blame the Victim" in its approach. (Kind of funny to title the person being loved The Victim, right?) And that tweaks me a little.

Particularly troublesome to me: "[the men] can hardly be blamed for..." Oh, but they can be. Always. Women don't make men fall in love with them. No one makes anyone feel anything. People choose to feel how they feel. And, I think, the sooner we all take personal responsibility for our feelings -- and only our own feelings; not our lovers' -- the better off we are.

Jacob at leather sport. - m4m

I came in this afternoon and tried on several jocks. You were nice enough to give an opinion. Sadly, I lost my nerve on buying the more exciting pairs (I'm sure I'll get them eventually) and I didn't have the nerve to ask for your number once the store filled up. If you run across this, send me an email.

swinger girl. Chicago Sat Night "BAR CHICAGO" - m4w (Chicago)

hi, the attractive swinger girl at Bar Chicago Sat Night..

you the darker hair , cute skirt...


drinks on me ?

re: To my trouble - w4m

Beautiful poem. Nice.

I did jump, into a wall! lol Better to have loved and lost then never to have shared my love with her.

Leap, always!

you were prrrrreeeeetty and had long beautiful hair on the blue line - m4w (blue line to ohare at 420pm) 28yr

i got on at lake/lasalle, you were sitting next to an older woman with blonde hair. you had long brown hair, a little wavy, and you were playing on your smartphone gadget thingy. you got frustrated when the train doors wouldn't close, it took forever! i didn't mind the delay...i was wearing a grey coat and a red hoody and had a leather shoulder bag and was trying to read a book at some point. we both got out at division. you're preeeeeetty.

Ballys Roger Park - blue shorts / shower last Tuesday 6pm - m4m

You are a hot Latino and last Tuesday you were in the shower wearing blue shorts. I always think it's strange when guys wear shorts in the shower, but then when you know I was looking your way you pulled them down and showed the nicest package I've seen in a long time. What a great uncut dick and beautiful low-hanging balls! Damn! Really liked how you pulled the skin back and showed off for a bit. Hope to see you around more often!

I80/94 Westbound about 1:30 pm today - m4m

To the driver westbound on I80/94 this afternoon, I really enjoyed the show. Wish I didn't have to exit, I usually go to Halsted. (Nice maneuvering through traffic!!) If you see this, hit me up and maybe we can continue the show at less than 60 mph!!

Sociology student in comp lab - m4w (DePaul SAC) 25yr

We were both in the SAC lab yesterday afternoon working on papers. You kept having to leave to use your phone, which was crapping out on you, so you asked me to watch your stuff a few times. You were rather cute - I should have asked for your email address, as getting your number obviously wouldn't have done us much good.

TEC Building-COD - m4m (COD) 20yr

I doubt you will read this. And if you do, sorry. I don't mean to scare you. It's just I don't know any other way of finding you. Anyways, I was in the TEC Building lounge around 3:30pm-5:00ish on Thursday (the 11th) at College of DuPage. And you were also in the lounge. I think you were studying for something and left about quarter to 5. You wear glasses and you took them off to study. If you know who I'm talking about, then please send me a message. (That is if you want to) I'm not interested in sex or anything like that. You just looked like a really nice guy and I'd love to get to know you. Thanks

RE:Cutting You Off - w4m

I am sitting here missing someone, but I don't think I'm the person you were looking for, from what you said about the circumstances. I told the woman I'm missing how I felt, and we shared more than a single kiss. I hope you find your guy, but I would definitely urge you to let him know. At least then you won't be left wondering.

---

Im Sure Wishful thinking on my part...
But You Sound ALOT like him. I wish he was sitting there missing me.

He's well aware of how I feel about him.
Somehow he couldn't bring himself to say the same or tell me how he felt(Maybe He didn't feel the same is more my thinking).

Just decided between the behind the scenes drama...
The pain of a one sided "friendship"...
Was just too much to take.

My only hint:
Im Glad And Sad that I got one passionate kiss from you and to touch your cheek...
At least once...

Matt from Global Risk... - w4m (CBOT)

So if you are the big computer "nerd" like i am you might just see this.... thanks for helping me and my Boss today after work. I know this is a long shot, but would you care to get coffee sometime with me? I'd ask you in person, but isnt that the man's job? Hope you see this...and yes..i did color my hair...HAHA.....

K-

Blue Line around 745am Big Headphones on.... - w4m (Bucktown)

So i never do this but i saw you this morning on the Blue Line heading towards Forest Park...we exchanged glances a few times...You had on this ridiculously LARGE headphones....i sat down and then got up and stood next to you right before you got off at Jackson....i know the chances of you seeing this are one in a million but I dont mind trying.....i found you very intriguing. You had amazing eyes....i was the girl in the black coat with headphones on too...dont be stranged by this but i laughed when I took this picture of you....contact me...would luv to grab coffee or a drink....reply to this post,,,,we can work something out, or maybe i will see you tomorrow since i take the same train every morning....If you remember me...tell me what color scarf I was wearing? or anything you might remember?

K-

Cutie who works a jewel - m4w (Glendale heights)

You work at jewel in Glendale heights. Not sure if you have a boyfriend. I saw you walking in with a guy. I come in from time to time and always check you out.

how? - w4m

I just don't understand, how do you go from telling me one day that you're going to marry me and I'm the best thing that ever happened to you to the next day breaking up with me over something so stupid as what I said? I thought you loved me, you were the first person in years I had finally let in. Sure, I had dated plenty, but you tore my walls down like they were nothing. I truly loved you more than I had ever loved someone. Its been an entire month, and I'm still dying slowly inside, and you've moved on, you're gone. I know I hurt you, but how could we not work through something as silly as words? I thought you were the one. I still do but I know its just my hopeless romantic inside. I hurt you so much, but I also did everything I could to take that pain away. Why can't you come back? It was our first 'big' fight and I know I destroyed you with what I said, are you just angry? Are you just hurt? I want to wait for you, but at the same time I know I have to move on. We were so good together, even you said that over and over again, if there is anything I can do, please let me know.

I miss you T.

re: re: i knew it

it is about a woman from chicago, who has a terrible boyfriend. im helping her piece together the puzzle of the two woman he slept with during their relationship.

your voice

sounds better on MC.

if we were together right now - w4m

I'd get in da nude & press up against you.

I like

your moves. la da dee la da da.

RE: I KNEW IT

Maybe more about who you are talking to or about.........

Dear E W - m4w (Downersgrove)

It's been three weeks since I last spoke to you and I know you said for me to leave you alone so I am. I am writing this to you because despite it all i still love you and want to be with you. I don't know what I did to make you stop loving me and hate me but you do. I'm sorry for what ever I did to cause this. Please know that I love you and when you want me I will be here.

Hottie in car going to xsport (Downers Grove) 27yr

Hey, doubt u will see this but I saw u driving and u had an xsport hat on. You turned in so maybe u work there? Anyway, ur a good looking guy! I was in the mustang. Hit me back if u see this. What kinda car were u in so I know it's u.
Thanks

my sexy, sexy teacher - w4m (Loop) 20yr

You're my teacher at DePaul. You're sexy as fuck... let's fuck? (:

you looked at me on the train - w4m (chicago brown line?) 20yr

its really funny that im writing this. i was sitting on the train today with my bag and purse in my lap and headphones on. you got up and walked down the aisle following your friend to wait by the doors. you kind of kicked your friend. you had headphones on. right as I looked up at you you looked down at me. it was interesting. then you got off i think it might have been at the brown line chicago but im not sure.

re: I knew it

More information?

LaSalle Street Station Today - m4m (Chicago) 43yr

I was trying to make my 9:30am train heading south. You were coming from LaSalle Street Station. You spoke to me and smiled. You are very handsome. I am BM and you were a WM. I know I shouldn't be posting this but I have been thinking about you all day. Hope to hear from you.

Will the real MR. BIG stand up? (<3)

:)

Contact Exam - m4w (Michigan Ave) 42yr

Hey Miss KU, just wanted to thank for best eye exam ever! I thought you were fantastic. If I can ever take you to a b ball game let me know!

Hot Cop in AT&T Store on State Street (downtown) 29yr

Hey saw you this morning guarding the AT&T store...not sure if you are str8 or not but if you ever want to try, would love to take your load. Hit me up .

I knew it

the answer is two. sorry. i am not getting involved, but you will see oneday i was right.


p.s. i forget you did the same

Stratford Mall - m4m (Stratford Mall) 27yr

You were this white guy very hot with tattoo on your leg wearing a hat! You and I believe were your lesbian friends who appeared to be a couple walked unto game works I saw you and you walked by me walked to say hello but I got nervous and scared! It'd be cool to hang out sometimes!! If this is you message me! :) I'm Asian and wearing a green track jacket! If you've seen me what brand did I wear?! It was on my track jacket! :)

re: Why I rejected you

More information would be great.....There ARE a ton of Liz's in this world and some with damn good tits.....More information to narrow down the list.....

Sandwich Maker at the Potbelly's On Michigan and Wacker - m4m (111 E. Wacker) 31yr

Are you just a friendly guy? Or are you flirting with me? Well I'm flirting, and taking this indirect approach for you to consider a casual situation with lots of potential fun. You: look like Jesus, mentioned taking Chinese Language classes once. Me: pretending to be shy about it.

Berlin - m4m (Belmont)

New bar man at Berlin. You are a hottie with scruffy face and dirty hair. Are you single?

cute guy at moretties - m4m (moretties lake in the hills)

long shot but here we go ..... this goes to the cute guy wearing the white hat with the breast cancer logo on it see you sitting there was to shy to come say hi but i would like to go out for drinks or a bite to eat let me know what u were drinking so i know its you hope this works

Endless LOVE - w4m

I do love you Hunter

TO: Owner of dark Saab convertible - Lic. 571XXXX (Sheffield / Armitage)

To the owner of a dark colored Saab convertible, license plate - "571____" parked around Sheffield and Armitage last weekend,
I was in a cab on the way home that hit your car when it pulled over. He drove off after hitting it, but I've got the cab's number.

Respond to this post with the remainder of your license plate #'s and I can give you all the info.

need investor for tattoo/barber shop (chicago) 28yr

I need a person who wants to make money and is willing to invest in this business venture....have many years experience in both industries....please only serious emails

we eyed each other yest afternoon - m4m (starbucks-state&ohio) 35yr

i was wilth a freind. you were wearing a black t-shirt and jeans. would love to get together.

M. K. Miller - m4w

I met this woman many years ago while we worked at Long Grove Confectionery. She was a good friend to me and hung out many times. She had left due to being called away for duty after 9-11. We stayed in brief contact, but dropped out of touch. I really would like to see her again to see how she is doing. Please contact me if you know who she is or an idea. Please respond what the M. K. stand for and what branch of the military she was in, so I know you are sincere. I always kept her in mind and prayed for her safety and I really like to have some idea where she is. Hopefully, it hasn't been too long and I find out how she is doing. Thank you.

Wrigley Gum - m4w (Lakeview Food) 38yr

I met you there yesterday. You wore a red sweater, blue jeans and a scarf. You work for Wrigley and I am your man in blue.

You are fun to talk to, smart, gorgeous and I can't get you out of my mind.

Contact me. We'll share a drink and talk.

Re: Tons of Elizabeths - m4w

Well, if we're working on the theory of one, true Liz, we'll have to get rid of all the ones with shit tits.

re: somebody help me? - w4m (not here) - m4w

I thought the response of three possibilities (mirroring men, morphing to men's desires, and just being physically attractive) was a smart analysis. I'd like to hear the OP's response to that.

A bit of a digression, but I was reminded (and someone also re-reminded me) of Geoffrey Chaucer's Troilus and Criseyde (much better than Shakespeare's take in my opinion). Brief synopsis: There's a boy and girl in Troy during the Trojan War. Troilus, a kind-of player, falls madly in love for the first time with Criseyde. Criseyde seems to fall in love too, but then she is traded to Greece for a prisoner (skipping lots o' plot). There, Diomedes, a real player, successfully snags Criseyde to Troilus' loss and broken heart.

There's a paper I read that attempts to explain Criseyde's actions, and one theory was that she mirrored the men in her life. Her speech, tone and behavior seems to be in constant flux when she is dealing with various men who each have constant, unchanging personas. With Troilus, who is spouting off love poems, she is similarly sappy. With Panderus, her scheming uncle who is joking constantly, she jokes around constantly. With Diomedes, who is trying to simply get her into bed, she immediately jumps in bed with him.

The paper's claim, if I recall correctly, was that this mirroring, for a woman (and especially a widow) in that society, was a survival strategy. And I've noticed you can still see this mirroring personality in many people today.

Driving on Golf rd w/ blue Chrysler Seebring - m4w (Schaumburg) 32yr

You were driving down Golf rd. Around 11:30am. You were driving a blue Chrysler we exchanged smiles when we passes each other and when we stopped. We got off on Roselle rd and you went to Firestone Tire. I'd love to chat but didn't have the chance to give you my number. What color was my car? Hope I hear from you.

When I wake up - w4m (500 miles)

Give me another clue.

jansjoyousjungle.com/500.html

Beautiful Day (Shriners Hospital - Oak Park) 21yr

I walked outside coming from the Shriners Children Hospital at around 3:00 pm
You are this beautiful all American woman with beautiful curly blonde hair..
You looked at me and I glimpse at you for a quick second before
hopping into the car.
I should've said hi to you, gotten your name and possibly your phone number..
But I was such an idiot..

I hope to see you there again sometime soon.
You're so beautiful..
Just as it was beautiful yesterday...

22 Clark bus last night Blue Zoo York Hoody - m4w (22 clark bus) 25yr

SO I saw you get on the bus last night, and you sat almost across from me….
I thought you were mad pretty, and I saw you glance over at me a few times. Not sure why maybe its because I looked pretty mad, or you were interested.
You were Asian, Blue Zoo York hoody and you had a few piercings.
Me I was wearing a grey hoodie and baseball cap.
Lets do lunch or something!

Saw you at the gym around 10 - m4w 30yr

It was at lifetime. We made eye contact a few times. You cute and maybe we could chat sometime?

Yesterday, by the lakefront - m4w (Adler Planetarium) 26yr

You were walking alone, black pea-coat type jacket, black boots and blue jeans. Attractive, but looked sad. What's your story?

Tons of Elizabeths

Seems like a large amount of posts lately are directed to a Liz or a Beth or an Elizabeth.

wouldn't it be funny if they were all the same person?

Jury number98 (Crown Point Court )

Hey we were summonds together and sat next to each other. You are a hair dresser from home and live in Merriville was wanting to talk tell me where we went and for what on lunch break. Really hope to hear from you

RE:Cutting You Off - w4m

Im Sure Wishful thinking on my part...
But You Sound ALOT like him. I wish he was sitting there missing me.

He's well aware of how I feel about him.
Somehow he couldn't bring himself to say the same or tell me how he felt(Maybe He didn't feel the same is more my thinking).

Just decided between the behind the scenes drama...
The pain of a one sided "friendship"...
Was just too much to take.

My only hint:
Im Glad And Sad that I got one passionate kiss from you and to touch your cheek...
At least once...

Martha - m4w (My Dear)

Shaken from slumber...

Present.

~the conductor

Waiting in line at Underground Sat. Mar.6th - w4m (The Underground) 30yr

Pretty random, but I thought I'd try....
You were a gorgeous male with brown hair & beautiful eyes & full sexy lips! You were with another male brunette & a blonde gal!
I was a tall blonde with a shorter blonde! We made eye contact once or twice & smiled....I HOPE your single & straight & that you see this!!!
We were all waiting in line outside & they let me & my friend in & you guys were gonna go somewhere else...

Adorable Brunette Outside at 200 S. Wacker - m4w (200 S. Wacker on 3/10/10) 36yr

Hi, there. You were enjoying the beautiful weather overlooking the river at the 200 S. Wacker building on 3/10/10 around 3:30/4:00 pm. We had a nice conversation about... the weather. You seem like a real sweetie. You told me that you work in the 200 S. Wacker building and I pointed to my office in a different building.

It's turning out to be another nice day (on 3/11/10). Maybe we could meet again? Same time, same place? Or, email me and we can grab a coffee/lunch/etc.

Cheers-

Galter at NWM, 8th floor - m4m (Northwestern hospital) 45yr

Hoping this ISN"T just a missed connection. Yesterday. We both nodded, i followed you. WE both know what happened next. Maybe we can do this in another safer setting. I'm cool and discreet, have to believe you are too. Tell me know so I know its you!

From My keyboard - w4m

...to your electronic ears. Since you won't answer my texts, I have no other choice.

Just wanted to say sorry for my thoughtlessness in never thanking you for rejecting my advances when you knew there was a risk to me. Never realized the significance until recently when something jogged my memory.

The washing of the comforter was to start anew? Another guess, could have meant nothing. Unsure nor care anymore what is what on here, because I'm done and it's very liberating.

Be well and hope you're the next in the family to find love.

to Liz - m4w (Chicago) 27yr

Liz. It's been 3 years and a few relationships later. You are married and happy now and I am glad for you. Since we split you have crossed my mind everyday. You and I had something special. We loved the same things, we had the same dreams and in my heart I know we still do. I miss you. I miss the conversations, the silly dinners on your kitchen floor because you had no chairs, and the way you said you loved me. I love you and miss you and wish things could have been different. I hope your life is filled with everything you ever want.

sometimes i am alive... - m4w

sometimes i am alive because with
me her alert treelike body sleeps
which i will feel slowly sharpening
becoming distinct with love slowly,
who in my shoulder sinks sweetly teeth
until we shall attain the Springsmelling
intense large togethercoloured instant

the moment pleasantly frightful

when, her mouth suddenly rising, wholly
begins with mine fiercely to fool
(and from my thighs which shrug and pant
a murdering rain leapingly reaches the upward singular deepest flower which she
carries in a gesture of her hips)

annie g - m4w (waukegan)

You are incredible................. what I wouldn't give just to have one night with you...

Marital advice on the red line - m4w (Red Line South) 36yr

Redline south from Sheridan-ish this morning. You were sitting in the seat by the door talking with your friend on the phone about her marital problems. Best line - "Did you call me to validate your decisions or do you actually want my advice?" I was sitting kittycorner on the aisle until I had to slide over. Reading a book, wearing, a black pea coat, obviously listening in. I am pretty sure we exchanged glances a few times. And again when I got off at Chicago and you stayed on.

Anyway, you were quite cute and seemed cool as well. Drop me a line and let's talk. Or share another ride.

RE: Cutting You Off...OP - w4m - m4w

I'd hope you would take the same advice that you give to the guys who replied to you. After all, if you cut your fellow off, then he'd surely feel that it would be wrong of him to bother you; he might be sitting there now, wishing he could one day hear from you again, but at the same time respecting your wishes by not contacting you directly. If you really have the urge to talk to him, don't fight it - even if you just send him a little note so he knows it's not easy for you either. (Or you could, you know, give some more exact details on here, like initials or something, since the large number of replies you got suggests a lot of people are in the same, sad situation.)

I hope you find peace and happiness. Good luck.

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I have had alot of Replies to my original post...
"Cutting You Off is the Hardest thing I've had to do...I miss you"

No This is NOT for Rodger...

Guys....
If You Feel something for someone...
PLEASE just tell her.

Today is the type of weather day I really Miss him.
Fighting the urge to talk to him.

Hwy 59 Home Depot - m4m (Naperville/Aurora) 50yr

You are the good looking black man that waited on me this morning, said I was your first customer.
Would like to find out what's behind that SD apron.

Tell me what department and what I got from you.

Hottie at the Oscar Party - w4w (Hoyne and LeMoyne) 29yr

You were at the Oscar Party at my friend's apartment on Sunday. You were wearing a pink tank top that said "Miss April" with a Playboy bunny logo. You were the envy of every girl at the party however you looked a little upset and eventually tried to remove your tank top with your teeth. Everyone thought that was really funny; I thought it opened a window to your soul.

If this is you, please respond to this message with the title of restaurant that is in my favorite commercial from 1969, Buddy.

Miss U, 808 - m4w (overlooking the park) 53yr

If you want to be in contact, email me.

Cute Girl With Glasses - w4w (Sultan's Market) 29yr

I saw you last night at Sultan's Market. You were sitting at a table of very attractive women who were telling really lame jokes and one really funny racist joke. I tried to make eye contact with you, but there was a really hot blonde chick blocking my view of you. You kept offering to get a fork or water for the other girls at the table. I think we have a mutual friend. If you read this, please respond to me with the name of our mutual friend who founded a program in 1936.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Elizabeth

re: somebody help me? - w4m (not here)

My guess is that you are either a really good mirror for these guys or that you instinctively pick up on what they need and become more like that every time you see them.

If it's the former, then they are falling in love with themselves and you're right to take offense to that. Still, you have a role in this exchange that you may want to look into further. If it's the latter, then your role is even bigger and they can hardly be blamed for thinking you're the right girl for them.

Either way, you can change your affect on people if you change how you respond to them. That's much easier said than done, so you might want to turn to therapy for help.

There is a third possibility. If it's your physical beauty or sexual presence they're responding to, then you might as well get used to it. The unwanted attention may never stop.

Drawing me on the red line Wednesday - m4m (red line (stopped at Lake)) 23yr

I was sitting across from you and at some point you started drawing. I was completely lost in my music so I didn't notice, but then when I left just before 5pm at Lake I looked at the pad and realized you had been drawing me. I'm a very curious person so I'm just wondering- why?

Thank you.

re: Lebanese Blonde - w4w - w4w

No, mostly I'm high as hell, doing big ol' bong hits while online and I click your name by mistake.

A lot.

A few times a day.

;)

D - I need a massage - m4w 50yr

It’s been a long time & you give such relaxing massages. Maybe you’ve hinted you’d like to give more, I know I’d reciprocate. I wish you’d call to schedule me into an open slot. You won’t need the step stool.

To my trouble - w4m

A relationship forbidden
Yet here we are again
With hearts that wish for miracles
So the night would never end
In lives so filled with heartache
We found a place of bliss
The peace that had been missing
We both found in a kiss

Let’s lie awake in silence
Your hand tight in mine
Our souls bound together
As our bodies intertwine
Living for the moment
Bathed in candlelight
Together building memories
That will far out last a night

Communicating volumes
With a word in every touch
Neither of us knowing
That our hearts could feel so much
Wanting time to stop
So the sun would never rise
Because in a single moment
We found a truth in all the lies

Jump…

Seeking Sandy/Phil - m4w (NW Side Chicago) 45yr

Im trying to find out if you still live in the area. We met at Shooters near HIP plaza more than a few yrs ago. You guys use to be involved in racing.

Stunning in Blue Scrubs - m4w (151 NB) 99yr

I can count on one hand the times that I have felt my breath taken away at merely seeing someone. It happened this morning on the 151.

You must be a nurse at the nearby hospital complex given your blue scrubs. But to say that you are beautiful just doesn’t capture you fully. Such a perfect mouth and those gorgeous dark eyes. Just a hint of a smile (I’m sure from whatever you were listening to!) and there went my breath.

Whoever takes your breath away is a lucky soul.

Lebanese Blonde - w4w (still here)

I know you still look me up. Just curious? Or wanting something more?

Re: why I rejected you - m4w

Very classy!

and to use her name too! Why not give more detail while you were at it? Like were they veiny? Stretch marks?

Class act, really!

Outside Starbucks Madison and Morgan 8am this morning - m4w (west side) 37yr

You were standing outside Starbucks this morning. Gorgeous brunette in a ponytail. You were in a suit, skirt, hose and tennis shoes. Gorgeous face, love your nose, killer smile.
You were talking to some guy as you sipped on your coffee.
I KNOW I know you from somewhere...maybe we were in the same office bulding downtown..who knows...it's killin me! We may have even said "hi" once but I'm sure I never told you how gorgeous you are.
Anyway, thanks for the mindbender on this dreary Thursday morning.

Cutting You Off...OP - w4m

I have had alot of Replies to my original post...
"Cutting You Off is the Hardest thing I've had to do...I miss you"

No This is NOT for Rodger...

Guys....
If You Feel something for someone...
PLEASE just tell her.

Today is the type of weather day I really Miss him.
Fighting the urge to talk to him.

Northbound Damen bus, 8:30 a.m.-ish - w4m

I should have at least said hello. I really wanted to. But you were reading and listening to music. And, quite honestly, you made me a tad nervous.

Cant Take my eyes off LL - m4w (The office)

Linda....my god you look hot today !! I have had a huge crush on you for years !!! I know you will never read this but i just had to say it...i cant take my eyes off of you.

walking your dog welles park - m4w (lincoln square)

Hi,
You were walking your dog across the street from the library yesterday around 5....we said hi to each other...

why I rejected you - m4w

You have a great pair of tits, Liz, but nothing to say for yourself and no clue how to behave. That doesn't put you in a position to make demands.

It's pretty clear what you wanted out of an older guy, but you'd have to pick one desperate for tits like yours. And the fact is there are tits bouncing all around this town.

RE: Ill miss u S.... - m4w

Could you give a few details about S......its not time to give up yet......if this is who i think it is

To The “Daddy Issues” poster from yesterday (Chicago)

Of course I have daddy issues, everyone has “issues” daddy and mommy issues. Abandonment issues, self worth issues, inadequacy issues… Unless you are a part of the 2% of the population that was actually born and raised into a functioning family, EVERYONE HAS ISSUES. No one, I mean no one is perfect!

You shouldn’t be asking yourself and listening to your friends advice about whether this girl has daddy issues, of course she does, all girls do. The key is NOT in having the issues (know we all have them), the KEY is in the awareness for having the issues and what you do with them. You SHOULD be asking yourself whether this girl is repressing these issues or is she aware and dealing with them.

It also takes a really good partner to be able to help this girl see her issues lovingly, without publically ridiculing her, accepting them and laughing with her about them. Are you choosing love or are you choosing judgment?

You say your friend’s advice is to run, and these issues will be a continuous nightmare. And that may be true if she is repressing the issues she has. On the other hand if she realizes the issues and is working on them, then your friends and their advice is flawed.

You ability in loving someone is also a direct result in your ability to receive love. Do you want someone who supports you and your issues? Cause dude, you have them, everyone does, that’s the beauty of life!

Good luck

2 beutiful woman walking out of evanston hospital - m4w (womans hospital at evanston) 23yr

you shouldve let me pay for parking lol
wouldlove to chat more

Re:Re Mike

No it was you.....i have been waiting to hear from you....balls in your court. Call me....

VGL married guy (Cornell alumn) - m4m (we met in NYC)

we met in NYC in a men's clothing store

you're a REALLY hot guy - sensed a connection (or was that my cock just getting aroused?) lol

if you're in nyc on biz travel, look for me

hint: red & orange

Tell me store's name so I know it's you

Re: somebody help me? - w4m (not here)

Love is about getting to know someone and establishing something first. Then you work together on love.

You might not know it, but you are picking these men for a reason. There is some issue you have that causes you to have some type of void. The men you are picking have something to fill the void.

Maybe you would benefit some from therapy?

It sounds like you might be seeing something or starting to understand something about yourself because you see that there is something not quite right with these guys. but you are still making the mistake of picking them

therapy is my advice

Good luck!

somebody help me? - w4m (not here)

There is a pattern in my life, these men tell me they love me without even so much as a real date. I am easy to fall in love with apparently, I must weave some sort of magic that pulls them in. See the thing is, they don't fall in love with me necessarily. It seems like they fall in love with an idea, or my image? These men don't know anything about me, what I like, my favorite things or how I think. They fall in love with what they think I am and it turns me right off. So I am confused because I don't know what love is really supposed to be about.

I want a partner not an admirer.

What am I doing wrong?

To "Helga" from "Ignacio" - m4w (From CR to CL) 25yr

The suspense was killing me. Terrible time for a time out. Maybe some day you'll get to see that magic trick.

Bucktown AUSSIE...where are you?!

Looking for great Australian engineer from Bucktown who works for DELTA, rides the METRA to and from work.
And, helped 2 girls from Iowa try to find Millers, and caught a ride down NORTH ave in my silver MUSTANG. I have something
that belongs to you. Please conatact me. This happened the week after 4th of July last year. If you know of someone fitting this
desription, please foward this info. Thanks!

Re:Mike..... - w4m

To which Mike are you referring? Maybe you were the one that made it a one night stand...

Whole Foods Plaid shirt - m4w (Lakeview) 20yr

I saw you eating in the window of the whole foods cafe on school and ashland around 5pm. You were wearing a red plaid shirt and had long wavy hair. you caught my eye even as i was walking past.

The Dreaming - m4w 25yr

Alone. Anything but being alone. I'd rather be dead than alone. Waiting, and it seems as if my whole life has come down to nothing else. Alone again and waiting. Through the hurt in my guts, through the fear. It can always get worse. And the only question left is whether that's a reason to live or die. Maybe it'll all stop hurting if I let go and just close my eyes. The world goes soft as I slip away.

you got your haircut today... (Halsted) 22yr

I work at the hair salon you got your hair done at today....I really wish I got you as my client. Instead u went to my co worker (a girl).

Ur names steven. Cute as hell. Green rain boots. Said peace when u left.

Adorable.

Jeans and navy sweater vest - m4m (Archicenter) 26yr

It was around 4:25 pm. You're tall and slim. Lemme know if you're out there!

new mexico

100 plus acre ranch with house and barns for 225.000?
wtf

at the Gas Station in Skokie Howard and McCormick - m4m

you were at the station when I arrived, and you had a Mercury Coguar. We exchange couple of ...galnce...You hot asian guy. I was driving what car and what color...? If you see it let me know if you ready for a coffee or a drink

cute guy at checkout - m4m (Lakeview )

hey this is a shot-in-the-dark but friends convinced me so here goes..

i was behind you at the checkout line in Jewel carrying a basket. you were wearing blue shorts & a white long sleeve shirt, i think. dark hair, kinda scruffy face, about six foot, athletic white boy. i just got done running and was in my running gear still.. grey running pants, blue shirt & cap. think it was around 645-7pm just this evening. had my headphones and daydreaming a bit and to be honest, i'm just sorta shy. but i definitely noticed you. if this sounds at all familiar & you're interested, maybe dinner?